Treat yourself this speech.

The speech to those who, with their own empowerment, choosing amicable partnership and entering into a marriage - and to you who feel the obligation.

For making life to be good you have to bear responsibility and have influence.

• We treat each other to find ourselves in life and dominion over our lives. Your situation is unique - but as you can influence. You will not rough you all by them selves - but you will find you, if you still have a focus on other than yourself, in context, on society, family and future.

• We treat each other to be needed and useful. Utility has several stages. Each person must think in several stages. What is the result of that election or that election? What can I cope - and what should I do while I wonder if I can handle it? None of us is indispensable. Yet we are all need in life. We can all be questioned. It costs nothing to criticize, not even to be rude. Yet we all try to contribute positively to our rewards.

Your useful in the bigger picture is perhaps most evident when you can stand up on important values ​​who are threatened; as gratitude, as togetherness, as hopefulness, as indignation and commitment to human rights violations. It might be expected so much of you, that not in the fundamentally feels so important to you. May you then be able to keep your curiosity and expectancy!

So you are now husband and wife. Private, you have established a free zone which is now confirmed as publicly as possible. The ceremony turned a bridge between the most personal and the common. In the family can openness and reciprocity get rooms, such as publicity and performance life never can escape. To each other, you need not be good - but you need to have our eyes on each other. "Show affection to each other. Top each other in mutual respect and love. Rejoice with those who rejoice and weep with those who weep."

• We treat each other to get worn and receive help. Independent, self-determination and freedom are important concepts. Nobody should have to crawl; no one should have to be humble. It's hard to be a debt of gratitude. It is unsafe to be at a disadvantage when you can not trust the other. In a large society and the public it is often the case. The close relationship, when it is as we wish, it is in a different way. We are doing well by a mutual, safe, loving dependence. There you have entered in. May you be kept free zone, a protected species, yet welcoming to those you want to be closest!

And a life can be long. Those who are strong may be weak; those who are born weak become strong; that, you have to manage in your family. They who is safe dare to be cage!

• We treat each other to come back even if we fail. I do not think any man live up to what he or she would like to live up to. We all come to the end of the road. To love your neighbor as yourself is hard; sometimes the self-contempt will be overwhelming, when you see all their failures.You have got married.

You have come so close together that you know that love is mutual and holds reciprocal forgiveness. Then, there is room also for the failures and weakness!You have not done you deserve life. No one has it. It is given us; the air, the universe's existence and reasonably balanced, memories and hopes.

• We treat each other to find ourselves in life and dominion over our lives. We treat each other to be needed and useful. We treat each other to get worn and receive help. We treat each other to come back even if we fail.
We do treat you that!

Today's word; The only person you can change is yourself!