Insobriety in life.

 

Happiness comes from your own actions (it is a consequents of what do and how we behave) !

The symptom of “intoxication” can help you get to know the balance of people you meet; it can be Love, Food, Project and Drug intoxication.

Then the consequences of the "intoxication" become a habit that develops negatively. Then, if not sooner, it's time to analyze! Love can turn into a need for control, Uncontrolled eating can turn into obese disease, Projects can turn into violations of power, greed and jealousy. Alcohol is perhaps the one we can learn most from everything it has caused.

Example alcohol intoxication:

     The levels of intoxication can be

1) the thought and longing for happiness and soft feeling.

2) first glass = calm; 0.2 permille, feels the alcohol - becomes relaxed and less self-critical.

3) second to third glass = happiness intoxication phase (target, affected); 0.5 permille, releases inhibitions and reflexes. The judgment and ability to take information deteriorates. Precision deteriorates.

4) fourth glass = drunk (still happy, but the creativity in imbalance, visibly affected); 0.8 permille, the movements become excessive and the coordination worse. Sight is affected.

5) fifth glass = full drunk (gives consequences); At 1 to 2 permille, muscle control deteriorates and speech becomes slurred. At 1, the limit is passed for heavy drunk driving. Emotions are hard to control. Major balance difficulties. Sickness and emotional outbursts.

6) Groggy drunk (completely uncontrolled actions); 2 permille sees the affected double, has difficulty talking and walking upright.

7) Redless drunk (covered!); at 3 permille, the limit goes to unconsciousness and does not perceive what is happening and the risk of alcohol poisoning is great.

- Dependence comes gradually. Co-dependence can also be a kind of intoxication or self-indulgence.     But what about when you started to feel uncomfortable and unhappy with intoxication? It's not just to stop drinking or to be okay? -to stop seeing women as sex objects, -to stop smoking, -to flee one's place of residence, -to stop getting involved in everything and everyone, -to stop eating sweets, etc. - Or is it perhaps so ! ?

 

…… sentences and words, taken out of context, - and to put into different contexts .......? - the notes continue in the comments in Swedish .......

 

Communication, with help of words, is an art.

 

                        Month of July 2021

                                             Go for a walk

In order to achieve a meaningful conversation, an effort and empathy in the dialogue is needed. If there is an imbalance between the sentences, listening is a first step. Developing the words requires a conscious and mutual respect, no matter how hard the opposition is. Most of us humans communicate fundamentally beyond words and their literal meaning. Thinking into the other person's perspective requires a great presence. Feeling heard requires a great deal of openness.

Providing space to discuss complex and sensitive issues delivers feeling of security.

Creating presence and focusing gives attention. And asking questions, taking up ideas and rethinking questions, opens up for understanding.

[Trying out, by going from word to action, requires even more presence. Through consistency analysis, controller points and different gender perspectives, the "natural" development is allowed to flow.]

To separately identify (without dialogue) what one thinks and feels and then move on, creates openness. Here you can form new perspectives through understanding and continued questions about the goal.

And the "exchange of words" continues ………

 

 

value realism

 

The open society are unpatriarchy.

What characterizes the culture in Sweden is an approach that leads to what can be called "moral realism". This means that some values ​​are good and others are bad in themselves objectively. But it is preferable to relativism, where people are grouped into a hierarchy of oppressed and oppressors.

Some value systems are better than others for the well-being of a society.

 

Sweden's population appears to be secular, rational and self-fulfilling.

The Swede wants to be tolerant and inclusive when it comes to other cultures (self-realization), which means an extreme opposition to the secular and rational values. A common value system is necessary for a society's long-term prosperity and cohesion.

It can be said that the values ​​of liberal democracy, which include the principle of equal rights regardless of gender, skin color, sexual orientation, freedom of thought and expression, etc., are the best "recipe for values", which when implemented in a society leads to a maximizing well-being.

 

Vison;

Male guardianship of the women in the family is not on the map! Chastity culture and the ideal of innocence are history in the value system and are not tolerated! Here are just the same rights and obligations for all individuals in society, all with the same legal standard regardless of culture, religious or ethnic background; we have buried all identity politics and completely freed ourselves from collectivist group thinking based on identity. The focus is on individual and individual rights, not the rights of groups. Freedom of religion has been incorporated into the provisions on freedom of opinion and expression.

 

The elimination of patriarchy can allow men to be a little bit like women too!     (The COVID19 pandemic is demonstrating what we all know: millennia of patriarchy have resulted in a male-dominated world with a male-dominated culture which damages everyone –)

 

Changing the moral values ​​of individuals, which are important both for the well-being of society and for its cohesion and survival, is the goal.

- "We have our way and the Swedes have theirs"? A divided society divided into us and them is a society with low trust and little willingness to cooperate and becomes even more problematic in a welfare society where people are expected to contribute to the benefit of other members of society.

It is important to have a vision and a goal to gradually move people's attitudes and values ​​towards the Swedish attitude with secular, rational values ​​and towards self-realization.

Ethnic backgrounds do not need to be addressed, but the differences in culture, values ​​and ideas, which can be linked to and from, we can address!

- The open society is based on the equality and freedom of individuals but at the same time maintains a set of values ​​that are considered to be right and that constitute society's moral foundation. People in the open society are involved in dialogue with those who adopt opposing values ​​and try to criticize or change their positions or perhaps sometimes change their own positions.

Yet open society is not a morally relativistic or morally neutral society. Here, everyone is encouraged to adopt a set of fundamental values that some would call humanist or liberal democratic values.

What is your role?

 

The Learning Society.

Curiosity, creativity, economy, development, diversity, openness are concepts for people who consciously and subconsciously educate themselves. It can feel good for the moment to be taken care of and completely directed, but in most cases it is something that is missing for the whole, and the individual seeks knowledge for their thoughts, we are human.

The welfare society for the future.

Decentralization usually comes after a centralization that has become superfluous. We need smaller unit solutions with unchanged tax collection; then we also need more co-creation and learning (societal insight).

Creativity and Supervisor and control functions!

Control yourself, so you do not have to be controlled by others! Are you unconsciously creative, insane (extremes of balanced curiosity) or just lazy, seek the help of a Supervisor or controller?

A limited borderless open Sweden  ?

The ability to integrate is determined by the individuals' functional adaptation in both labor immigration and asylum immigration. Unregulated immigration is an impossibility in a welfare state?! A citizenship with clear rules!?

The green society !

In a hopeful environmental policy, one must formulate nature's agenda with great openness, competition and efficiency! It is not possible to recreate "then" with vulgar artegoistic marketing tricks. The conditional optimism with realistic solutions, which scientifically point to the problems, can mobilize everyone in a free, responsible and humanistic society!

Our membership of the World Union ?

The self-image of Sweden needs to be updated and value cooperation strengthened. Rethinking foreign policy unsentimentally in EU cooperation is becoming more important. The countries in Southern Europe constitute the protection against unsustainable immigration and there Sweden must contribute with competence as well, we are already contributing financially!

politics with freedom under liability

 

                                       the new symbol of Swedish opinions, liability and freedom.

Politics is about actual cause-politics, human-sight, thought-figures and the climate of ideas in society. Opinions and values can be normalized and change living conditions in the long run. In order for it to be as good as possible, we have a democracy process constantly ongoing.

In our democratic and liberal parties in Sweden, we have visions that are reliable in most parties; the structure of society has been shaped into individual freedom under one's own responsibility, and we are doing quite well in Sweden. Then we also have some voters who prefer evil inner visions; visions hidden in populism and frightening marketing. As for the conservative voters, it seems to be a change more in the controlling democratic direction; traditions are important but they must respect our human rights!

That power is inputting to freedom under one's own responsibility makes it very hard to make govern, therefore more knowledge about common sense is needed!

We must correct this and convince the voters through open public education.

The debate within the politic-parties, which should be open, should show our inner thoughts without blinders. We make a balance between the external and inner life goals, where the external ones dominate unsustainably in today's society.

It is important to maintain the balance between reasonable conservatism and refreshing creativity. Intelligent and cautious conservatism coupled with careful and sharp change is what maintains and creates order in society.

Democracy is an ongoing process; if it stops, it is no longer democracy. Sound and logical policy is a realistic policy for human obligations and rights, liberalism is for freedom of expression without offensive elements; words can hurt as much as physical abuse. There must be sustainable rules here for those who make shit about humanity!

If we encourage for an open debate, we must also meet, with great knowledge and pedagogy, extreme individuals in society. Even those who refuse to listen to our arguments; one of many alternatives to this may be well-developed controller functions; SOCIAL CONTROLLER - A person or a team that, inter alia, has the task of advising and analyzing the management of society's resources, which do not only include means of payment.

Liability and freedom at all levels

The meaning of words changes; Today's words for Liberalism stand for "freedom" and Conservatism stands for "responsibility" in a democratic process (in Sweden?). Unfortunately, some voters bring the old meaning of "do as you please" and "do it yourself and shit in others", Socialism has more of the meaning "beneficiaries". There must also be a good safety margin against power-hungry psychopaths; Republic with president is a major risk factor in a symbolic policy! And regardless of the character of politicians, good or evil, politics is carried out by authorities where there are also risks; so, start a newly developed CONTROLLERS-functions in society (where analysis and counseling for the inner life goals are included). "Controllers-function" (or perhaps a new name) that can be a part of non-profit mentorship.

Furthermore, the view of Sweden's ideology has changed so that each person is seen as an individual in the flock. Man has been shaped by his surroundings and must take his own responsibility for his life. Justice and parity are important in the ongoing democratic process. And in that view, there are equal parts Liberalism and Socialism, though somewhat less Conservatism. Religion-free politics, but free doctrine which is terror analyzed (with Controllers-function).

Citizens' budget for democracy development

 

 

If you as a citizen use your gender abilities to develop a sensible democracy, these concepts can be included;

Your female self with feeling, care, promise, renewal and chaos cooperates with your male with order, rationality and exploration.

On the sensible side are trust, dignity, commitment, inclusion, solidarity, transparency and citizenship.

Laser and lanterna

 

Attention is like a light source. No matter what light you focus on, you learn more. If you continue to focus, the light will penetrate deeper and deeper into the abyss of the unknown like a laser beam.

Laser-attention can reach great lengths and, if necessary, cut through all obstacles along the way.

If you are constantly curious about different subjects, your light will spread in many directions. This is like a lantern. Since you will not be able to compete with the gross time under illumination per subject for your laser contemporaries, you will probably not reach the highest level of mastery in any of the well-trodden interests that you have cultivated. But the more different landscapes you illuminate, the more you will find ways in which one subject can inform another, which can give rise to a completely different field altogether.

… .. One way is really no better than the other, we need both laser and lantern medicine when we collectively map our way forward.

The important things to keep in mind are the places that suck our light. The most expensive of these are the artificial screens - The dazzling light sources that do not require their own light to illuminate. TV, telephones and game consoles. In addition, there are also the topics that turn us off. Excess alcohol is a leader in this category.

But sometimes we need a break from being turned on, and you should not be foreign news. It's just about balance.

What about self-esteem? What feminine and masculine do you have; chaos, renewal or innovation, exploration, promise or commitment, rationality, care, order, feeling.